The text am referencing here are usually those random messages that come from a person who has hurt u in the past someone who isn’t even worthy of a response.
Exes usually choose the after hours to send the text messages because your mind is bit more eager in the evening your defence are much lower and we are generally emotionally, vulnerable and available during the night both men and women.
Keep in mind that you are most likely not the only one they reached out, us men send same text to to three or more women in hope that someone will bite and respond the higher the number the greater the chances, that “I miss you text” these type of text message are supposed to play on your need to feel as if you are being thought about it plays on the natural feeling of loneliness that often creeps up whenever you’re unable to sleep again,
the person texting you is generally the same person who neglected you, it’s the same person who hurt your heart, it’s the same person who walked away from you to be with someone else and now they’ve reduced you to the person they now contact when they are horny , they’ve decided to reach out to you only after they’ve become bored with the person they left your for.
I tell you don’t respond block them change your number, remember why it didn’t work before remember the times they hurt you remember how it felt to realize that they left you for someone else remember how it felt to feel insecure about that relationship how it felt unsafe and unreliable.
You are not a hobby, you are not just someone or something to do when they are bored. You are powerful more powerful than you may realize and you’ll be fine without their empty promises.
Now save this as a reminder and share it with those you care about.
I think it’s important to spread truth and the next time “I miss you” comes in….
Ignore that lie and continue to move forward with your life you deserve to be with someone who makes you a priority someone who stays someone who chooses you always.